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[quote=Anonymous]We have three married children, all with kids, and we do our very best to be fair but it's not always equal. For every grandchild we set up 529's with the same amount of money and we gift each family the same amount of money at Christmas. That money can be used for private schools, savings, whatever. But, they have each had specific needs that we have been able to help them with. Bridge loans, IVF treatments etc. All three have benefited from it but the dollars aren't the same. We have told them that over time we will do our best to be fair but that we are not going to keep a tab running to make sure it's all equal. There is no doubt that if one of them was to lose a job or have a SN child we would throw equal out the window and they are all mature enough to accept it. [/quote]
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