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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, thanks and plus 1.  I mean, really, how could this dude be this dense.  I am tall, maybe a 7/10 attractive, slightly overweight, dress well, and chatty and I promise you I have been propositioned flat out at least a half dozen times over the [b]year. [/b] Like, not subtle: "so does this drink end in my hotel room?" invitation from a hotel bar while I am traveling.

And i have turned down almost all of them.   [color=red][b]I took up one when I was in a low point in my marriage.[/b][/color]  So sure, there is some correlation between men who cheat and men who are satisfied but there is also a lot with just having opportunities and there are plenty of them.[/quote]

Cool story bro. Man who travels a lot AND stays in hotels away from home AND dresses up AND flirts AND buys strange women drinks at bars AND is tall AND chatty AND attractive.... gets lifetime grand total of 6 propositions? Shocker: call CNN. What does this have to do with the pregnant-wife-now-husband-decides-to-cheat-scenario that OP is asking about in this thread?

Not sure if you were trying to disagree with me, but actually thanks for 100% validating the essential point that OP asked about: [b]an otherwise faithful married man cheats when he gets no sex at home[/b].[/quote]

Your zeal is clouding your reading cells.  He said half a dozen a year.  A year that isn't over yet. And this fits my own experiences as a woman traveling for work on a regular basis.

Plus, you don't really know why his marriage was at a low point.  There are all kinds of reasons for a marriage to hit a low point that do not involve no sex.  I mean you generally have little sex with someone who angers or irritates you, but the core reason doesn't have to be sex.

Oh, what does this have to do with the OP's scenario? Simple.  There are opportunities to cheat that present themselves.  Many men will take advantage of them if there are no foreseeable consequences, and they have nothing at all to do with the state of the marriage.  It's just like...I can do this so why not?[/quote]

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