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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To the men: did it ever occur to you that perhaps you are just not good in bed and that is the reason why your wives refuse to sleep with you?[/quote]
Men don’t suddenly get bad in bed. It was there all along but you just wanted a husband. [/quote]
Or sex wasn't the #1 important thing on the list.[/quote]
So how did you power through while dating and why not do it now? [/quote]

Not PP and not in a sexless marriage but this is an incredibly dumb question. When you're dating things are new and exciting and you're willing to overlook things that aren't perfect. You're not really powering through so much as doing something you're excited about but that isn't quite as good as you thought it would be. Like eating a piece of chocolate cake that looks GREAT but tastes meh. But hey, its chocolate cake! Even meh chocolate cake is still chocolate cake! But when you've been together 15 years and been overlooking that annoying thing for 15 years AND you're generally annoyed at them for 10 other things, then you don't want it anymore. You don't want the 150th meh piece of chocolate cake. And you know what, a mediocre creme brulee would probably taste AMAZING right now because you're so freaking sick of chocolate cake.

In the beginning no one is faking or powering through, there just isn't ages of baggage and resentment and boredom piled up. [/quote]

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