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[quote=Anonymous]I haven't read all the messages, so my apologies if something here is a repetition of what has been said earlier. You seem to be in a tough spot OP.

When you yourself are facing any mental health issues then it becomes hard to not believe those closest you to. In this case, your wife, who instead of being a supportive partner is being the very definition of an evil step-parent. You should reevaluate why you are with her, how is she helping you be the best version of yourself and vice-versa. I am not a Christian, but don't believe that any god would ask you to turn your back towards your innocent children, spl when they are trying to connect with you. Please don't reject them, don't ignore their need for connecting with their father.

I feel you have made your mind to reconnect with your kids, and are just seeking reaffirmation here. Accept this! and convey this to your wife. This is a fact, what happens to your marriage is for you and your wife to decide.

If I were you, I'd start writing my feelings down, and figure out how I would apologize and then request your ex and kids to start seeing a family counselor to facilitate the entire process. I am sure you feel horrible, but they are in worse place than you in this situation.

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