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Reply to "I'm afraid I've seriously damaged my children's lives - need perspective "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also wife #2 persuaded me to throw out all the photos of me and the ex and the kids. I took the position it was their history and they were entitled to have it. Lost that one and was persuaded to toss it all. That was agonizing. [/quote] Okay. Big sigh here. I refrain from offering advice because like you, I'm sort of a basketcase and have a long history of toxic relationships. I'm even married to an emotional abuser right now. With that said, this is an egregious display of hostility on her part. If she were truly so concerned about your emotional welfare, she'd never ask you to do that. I think you're likely in an abusive relationship. Leave that and then work on reestablishing a relationship with your kids. Keep the lines open now too. Text them both right now and say you miss them. [/quote]
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