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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex went on vacation in FL last week. He wanted to see DC as soon as he flew back in. We could not agree on that and ultimately I just had to say no, he'll see you in 2 weeks. There is little he can do about it now (except tell DC that I'm being unreasonable).[/quote]

Actually he can take you to court if its court ordered and if its not court ordered he can file for a new visitation agreement.  You could be reasonable and offer daily phone/video calls at a minimum and make up the time after two weeks.  You are being unreasonable.  You aren't offering any compromise or make up time.[/quote]

First of all, you don't know if I offered any compromise or make up time (I have). He can do as many calls or video calls as he wants (which is almost none). DC is totally available to him this way.

I realize he could take me to court, but the point is, even if he tried ASAP it will take longer than two weeks. This is not an emergency. And one reason he didn't and ended up giving up quickly is that he chose to travel on a beach vacation during a pandemic. In order to comply with the current CDC advice, he shouldn't have contact in person with our (immune-compromised, by the way) child.[/quote]

Safety first. Period. That’s your argument, protect your child. You know if you’re doing the right thing. Florida is going to have a huge surge after not forcing all the beach goers into their homes. The risk isn’t perceived, its real. You’re also following local guidance. A judge, should it come to that, will be reasonable. But I would rather have a legal disagreement than a child clamoring for a ventilator if I’m wrong. Eff that.  [/quote]

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