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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know someone who was in the process of separating from her husband. She had cheated on him. It was a really difficult and uncomfortable situation for everyone.

In the midst of all this happening, he was in an accident and died. Immediately she had a ton of support and people all around her. Also it was as though none of the bad had ever happened and her cheating was forgotten. She talked about him as though they had never separated and as though they had a great marriage and a great person. It was really bizarre.

It was far better for her that he had died. However it was much much more traumatic for the kids and his family. She was really the only one who benefited socially and financially from his death. Her kids however did not do well at all and had a really really hard time. Much worse than if they had separated. They had been very close to their dad and the loss was profound and traumatic. [/quote]

It's not better for her at all. [/quote]

She felt it was much better. It took away a lot of the complications for her and made people feel sorry for her instead of upset with her. She felt a lot of relief when he died. It meant no more custody battles, no more conflict, and it was much easier for her. [/quote]

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