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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We did and TRUELY wish we did not. They dated 1.5 years. He just broke up with her 2 days before Valentines Day. He is leaving to go to college in California and she is beyond devastated. She is screaming and crying. She starts therapy next week. They still remain "Best Friends" which does NO GOOD! Yes they slept together. We like the boy a lot. However, the age difference is huge and he is moving on. He explained it and she is in denial. [b]Yes they will go to Prom and such[/b].....but her heart is broken.[/quote]

This is hilarious! He continues to use her as a FWB!  I wonder what this girl's college-life will be like?

There are many boys who want to lose their virginity before they go to college. Then, there are many guys who want to lose their virginity as fast as they can when they are in college.  Normally, naive girls are used by them in school and in college for this express purpose.  These girls are not even "starter girlfriends". These are just convenient objects for the guys.

What they leave behind are girls who are complete wrecks! In school and in college.

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But this kid IS stringing her along until he leaves for college, vs. making a clean break.
Oh my goodness.  They are *teenagers* and teenagers are usually not quite ready to make life long commitments to each other.  It's far better that this boy was honest and broke up with Op's daughter rather than string her along and continue to allow her to believe that they have an exclusive, long distance relationship.

She could have just as easily broke up with him, btw.  She will get over it and they will remain on friendly terms because this boy was above board with her. [/quote][/quote]

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