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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It cracks me up how bent out of shape people are getting about tidying and helping ice the Frozen cupcakes for DD's 2nd birthday party or clean up the pan from cooking the chicken nuggets that everyone rushed home from work to cook the kids for dinner. People are getting in fights and making themselves miserable over the silliest stuff![/quote]

Is that all it is? Perhaps it's not noticing the dog has been outside for over an hour in the middle of winter because you forgot he was with you outside (dog is fine thank God)

Or perhaps it's never opening your mail so your kid nearly loses her health insurance because you missed all the notices your company sent you about a mandatory audit?

Or just maybe it's because you kept forgetting to pay the tax bill and cost your family over 5 grand in fees before your wife got sick of it and took over.

That's just a sample of ADD hell[/quote]

So the dog is fine, and the health insurance is fine. You owed some money on the tax bill. Doesn't seem like hell. And certainly doesn't seem worth creating constant stress and anger around the house, unless of course you like being the martyr and having the constant drama. I mean, literally put a reminder in your outlook to pay bills and taxes and have a 30 second discussion, and it will be fine. Or spend all your time feeling like a martyr who lives in hell. Lol. [/quote]

Over 90% of unmedicated ADD marriages split as one partner gets exhausted.  If you call martyrdom making sure your kids are adults and can’t be affected anymore, then I’ll fall on that sword. Now youngest is 18 and i no longer have to play the game[/quote]

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