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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stepmom PP, the fact that your DH’s ex is a bad person does not mean deadbeats are not. Yes there are terrible moms but that’s not an excuse to defend the deadbeat dads. My ex refused to pay 50% on many occasions because he thinks he already pays a ton. And because he doesn’t think it’s necessary. Can’t wait for the ortho treatment to begin, yay.[/quote] He should only pay 50% if he was court ordered. He isn't a deadbeat if he is paying what is court ordered.[/quote] Any man or woman who needs a stranger or a court order to tell them to pay half (or proportionate to income) of their kid's expenses is a deadbeat and a loser. This is your kid, you had him without a court order, pay without one. But those who have court orders and don't pay, those people are special. And don't get me started on how differently society and the judicial system view parents of color vs. white parents in these circumstances. [/quote]
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