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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do people always act like it is no work or effort to create and maintain a “perfect” family home? I know a few people with homes like this, and it definitely is done to the exclusion of other things. I know that they enjoy having a home like this and like most of the process, but it is definitely something that they a significant amount of time on for months or years, and continue to spend a moderate amount of time on every day. [/quote] Because if they act like it's no work, then (1) it's easier to judge people who don't meet their standards, and/or (2) they can pretend they aren't OCD or uptight or whatever. They want to pretend that this is really easy and they are relaxed, laid-back people. They don't want to admit that they care a lot about having everything be neat and clean and arranged just so, because they think it's not cool or something, so they act like it's not really as much effort as it is. [/quote]
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