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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's bizarre so many women on here are defending this hyper-mommying role that so often kills marriages.  We're not talking about ignoring kids and letting them watch tv for 12 hours a day.  We're talking about not letting them sleep in bed with you until they're 10.  Or leaving them with a sitter once a month.  So that you can prioritize your marriage sometimes.  [/quote]

Ok, the DH can call the sitter and figure out sleep training if he doesn't like the situation. Be our guest!!  [/quote]

+1 So, we women can do the lion's share of the actual housework and childwork, plus hold down full time jobs, plus figure out the timing of date nights and the logistics of sleeping, AND be sexually available every moment?

All for what? The privilege of being married to a manchild who pouts, or even cheats, if we don't perform every element above perfectly? No, thanks. [/quote]

Who is making you do
 everything?  Your spouse has put a gun to your head and sis do all of the housework, planning and childcare?

More likely, you didn’t learn how to get a man to coparent!  There are many methods but one is just leaving the house and not doing things for them. [/quote]

right, more work for women - learn how to get a man to coparent, and get him to do so. [/quote]

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