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[quote=Anonymous]This is your DH's issue to navigate, and at your HHI it is not about the money. Try to be as supportive as you can be. There are many of us providing financial support to parents (or extensive caregiving support) where $500 is really nothing. It's about your judgment about what this man deserves or doesn't deserve. But the real issue is what your husband feels is best for him to do to manage and/or bring closure to a longstanding difficult formative relationship. Support him in doing that. This is not about you, and it's not about your jerk of a FIL. It's about your DH and what is best for him. [/quote]
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