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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. The hate doesn't surprise me, tbh. It just proves I'm right.

I already coach his baseball team. My ex does nothing. She's a loser and a bad mom so I was asking for help to get her to be a better mom. Apparently that touched a few nerves. lol.[/quote]

You screwed up by marrying a loser.

You fixed that by divorcing her.

Unfortunately, you can't fix her or change the fact that she is the mother of your child. You will have to make up where she is lacking. Perhaps you can get sole custody and hire a nanny/personal assistant to do some of what you need done.[/quote]

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+1 isn't this what moms with deadbeat ex-husbands do.. compensate for the lacking parent?  That's what my sister has done with her deadbeat ex.[/quote]

Why are assuming this mol is a deadbeat, a lacking parent etc? WTH?  I’m also a mom who works FT and is not in “junior league” (is anyone in that anymore!?) - I think those criteria apply to most moms on this board.

My kids attend aftercare 4 days a week and are enrolled in an activity pretty much every season. We do play dates sometimes as well- on the weekends. I don’t go out of my way to do more than that- both kids are thriving and happy and I am not a “deadbeat”.

OP if she works, does your son go to aftercare?? And you said he plays baseball..between aftercare and baseball he is getting plenty of socializing. If you want to play social climber/social engineer do it on your own time with your DS. She doesn’t appear to want to and thst is fine. [/quote]

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