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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Absolutely wasn't snooping but I don't car to convince the haters otherwise.

Yes the notes are accurate but I'm allowed to live in my house too. I'm not his guest. Yes, I will occasionally be messy and yes my stuff will sit on the dining room table for a week while I'm working 8-6, raising three kids and getting them to and from sports/events. That's life.

My instinct is to call him out on his little notes. I find it very... unmasculine[/quote]

I was with you until you referred to his notes as "little" and questioned his masculinity. Do you demean him frequently?[/quote]

I'll demean when demeaning is called for. I'm not a student of his trying to get an A. He's grading me as if he sits in some spot of authority. I could very easily do the same to him and his shortcomings are plentiful. But I don't because I'm an adult and if I have a problem I can promise you that you will hear it.[/quote]

Agreed. And to be honest I am so tired of these whiny whimpy “men”. When did men lose that thing that’s makes them...men?! Masculinity is missed by this woman![/quote]
+1000 I’m a woman and passive-aggressively keeping little whiny notes about how your spouse didn’t move her shirts on Tuesday even though she totally said she would is a bitch move. I wouldn’t respect a woman for doing it, either, but it’s pitiful in a man.[/quote]

I'm convinced OP is responding to herself with all these whimpy man posts. Obnoxious. You're still awful OP. There's nothing whiny about someone taking notes - no matter how much you want to make it a "bitch" move. It's obvious who should be called the bitch.[/quote]
Uhm i’m not the OP. But you’re right, it’s not a bitch move, it’s like...a teenage girl move. “Dear Diary, today mom promised to take me to the mall but she didn’t. Gawd!”[/quote]

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