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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is cultural. You may be a nice person, but you are not someone that she will trust with her child. I am the same way. [quote] I am very reluctant to trust people outside of my culture. Truth be told most immigrant women do not trust American women no matter how nice you appear to be. Many immigrant women tend to be conservative. We take threat to many of the loose and liberal parental styles that some Americans practice. [/quote] Also, what is okay or normal in your culture may be offensive in your friend's culture. Please do not take it personal. It is cultural and you will never understand our ways. Just focus on the children's friendships without being overbearing. Do not be pushy or create unnecessary drama. You have no idea how difficult it is to trust someone with your most prized possession your child. [/quote] You realize racism can be embedded in a cultural? Mistrusting and stereotyping a whole race is classic racism. I hope this "cultural tradition" isn't passed down to your kids, that their white friends can't be trusted since they are not "Indian" enough.[/quote] I’m Hispanic, born in Central America and I can’t stand this racist shit. It’s just like me saying I would be uncomfortable with my kids with Black families because they are from another culture. Or Indian. Or if a white family said that about mine. [/quote]
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