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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are being sensitive -- in her own way she's trying to say it's okay if breastfeeding doesn't work for you. She recognizes you are struggling and is trying to be supportive. Not worth making a big deal out of it.[/quote] This. She is trying to make you feel that there is no guilt or shame in giving up BF if it's causing you harm mentally. While the majority doesn't breatfeed, the women who are in dcum are in the group of women who put a ton of pressure on it bc it's the ideal after all and that gets hard.[/quote] O, she is telling OP that there is guilt and shame in trying to co to use what she wants to do, even though she finds it challenging right now. One conversation about it is enough. The repeated messages are demoralizing and draining, and the formula tops it off. This isn’t co. Earn, this is co trol and meddling, and very typical of what many women face when BF. [/quote]
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