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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does your DH have working hands? Mouth? Have you gotten creative? I'm sure his self esteem has hit rock bottom, but you can still make each other feel good and foster intimacy without PIV.[/quote] That isn’t the same. To expect someone (I’m assuming OP is youngish, 30s-40s) to be the lifetime care giver of their disabled spouse at an early age AND to never have sex again, isn’t fair. She has the option to divorce him and have all the sex she wants with anyone AND not have to physically take care of him. He would have no one to help him then. But she isn’t doing that. It sounds like she wants to be there and care for him in every sense. Having a side affair is the better option to the cut and run. If she is to have the caregiver role long term, her making sure her needs are met in a discreet way should be acceptable. [/quote] You are insane. [/quote]
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