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[quote=Anonymous]His kids come first. You need to figure out a way to build a positive relationship with them if you want to continue the relationship. They have had their world torn apart and an extremely vulnerable age (preteen -early teens). Go to an experienced family counselor to help you all find a path forward. You say that you have been friends with your BF for years, were you also friends with his wife? How is your relationship with her today? You need to repair or forge that too. Also please know that people act in all sorts of ways during a divorce that are mean spirited, but usually they come out of it. Divorce changes [i]everything[/i] and people have trouble letting go of plans, dreams, and fight within themselves too. Take behavior during the divorce (especially if you only have BF's version) with a grain (or three) of salt. Some people are button pushers and you may have witnessed someone's reactions to that. NO ONE is innocent in a divorce. [/quote]
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