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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

This guy is amazing and has a great, easy going personality. However, I don’t feel physical attraction towards him.

I guess the reason for this might be that he’s not my ‘type’. I’m attracted to tall, slender men. This guy on the other hand is short and stocky. I don’t mean to sound shallow, but I’m just not attracted to that body type at all.

I feel that I need my man to be way taller than me. I’m attracted to tall men. With this guy, I’m trying to focus on his great personality force myself to look past his body structure, but unconsciously I can’t help it.

I don’t know if I’m being unreasonable or not (please let me know). The last date I felt we were in the friend zone. The reason I feel repulsed is because I see him as someone like my dad’s friend, rather than a future sexual and romantic partner. I can’t picture him as being my future husband,

Des this make me sound awful and am I being unreasonable?[/quote]

You are totally reasonable, because in reality he has preferences too. He most probably wouldn't be attracted to a woman bigger and taller than him, so don't feel bad.

I think the biggest problem here is that you feel repulsed. It is one thing to not be attracted and another to feel repulsed. There is hope if you think that a person is likable, cute, but you just don't feel the spark. There is 0 hope he will grow on you if you are repulsed by a thought of kissing him.
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No, she is not totally reasonable. She is repulsed by a guy because he’s not a statistical anomaly - much taller than her. If another guy claimed to be repulsed by any woman who wasn’t statistically abnormal in appearance, I certainly wouldn’t pat him on the back and tell him he was being reasonable. [/quote]

This is just your very rigid version of things. In reality he is probably as tall as her when she wears heals or maybe even shorter. Most women wouldn't like that. Most women who have a choice would avoid that. So, what's your point?[/quote]

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