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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you. To answer your question I am in my late 20s. That all makes sense and I appreciate the information. That would explain why I am not offered it annually - I do not meet any of those risk factors and I have actually never been pregnant, so it's never been offered to me at all. That is what scares me. It sounds like since I am not considered "high risk," people don't see it as necessary, but I could have gotten it from a one-time thing five years ago and just have no idea. [/quote] OP, I didn't realize that was you asking. Sorry about that. The place where your reasoning goes haywire is that it is like you are ignoring or not able to digest what the words "high risk" mean. You're not "not considered high risk" via a mistake on your health care providers' part leading to you not being testing and some horrible underlying fact going unnoticed. You are "not considered high risk" because you actually have not done things that put you in danger of contracting HIV. There was a slogan in circulation when I was your age: [b]HIV is hard to get.[/b] It was meant to calm down people who at that point were freaking out that they could get HIV from public restrooms and pools, but it was and is true across a wide range of activities, including heterosexual intercourse with a young man who is not an injection drug user and doesn't have sex with men. To put this in the context of your anxiety: you are much, MUCH more likely to have contracted hepatitis B via the sex you had than to have gotten HIV that way. Hep B is 50-100 times more transmissible than HIV. Your mind is fastened to HIV for some reason, and it's not a reason that has anything to do with real analysis of risk. You have a contagion thing going here, a worry about pollution. That is anxiety, not your wise mind talking. Get better treatment for the anxiety. [/quote] Thank you. I really do appreciate you! I know it is anxiety because as soon as you say "You wouldn't get it from a young man"...well once I gave an older man a blowjob once! But he was straight and not a drug user, just 40. So I can think of a myriad of situations that stress me out. I generally did not have unprotected intercourse, though I did give blow jobs. So I think it's just anxiety. I actually probably will go get a test this week, maybe an at-home test which would be mortifying to buy, especially when as you put it, the risk is low. Thank you, thank you, thank you. And happy holidays![/quote]
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