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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I must correct a major flaw in this entire thread. Most so-called “cheating men” do so because they are in a sexless marriage with an uninterested wife. In which case, it is totally expected and normal and healthy that he is going elsewhere for sex. THAT is not a red flag for future relationships at all. Quite the opposite. If he’s NOT having sex elsewhere, THAT is a major red flag that he is an abnormal low libido male whom you definitely never date. [/quote]

Hate to tell you but my X is a sex addict but sex with me (I offered it often) was not what he needed to fulfill his addiction, [b]so it’s NOT always bc of a sexless marriage that men cheat[/b].[/quote]

But....it mostly is.  You can't apply "always" to any situation as there are all different kinds of people. But cheating is nearly always about getting needs met that are not being met.[/quote]

Cheating is 100 percent always about the cheater. I was a great wife, friend and lover. My XH would say that now, if asked, and he has no reason after all this time to be complimentary to me as we have no children. He had issues that he had to sort out and it wasn't about me or lack or sex (because we had lots of hot sex) at all. Cheaters' cheating is about the cheater. [/quote]

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