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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it really depends on the situation. I have two girlfriends who cheated on their husbands because they were in sexless marriages. One had a fling and one had an affair. Both spent years (well over half a decade) before and after the affairs trying desperately to make things work.

Neither of them was a coward or has a moral defect.  They both tried to deal with their problems directly and honestly, both insisted on therapy and did their part to fix what they could on their end, both begged their husbands to try to make things work. Neither wanted to end their marriage.[b] But in the end, neither of them could live without any intimacy in their lives (on top of other problems, which generally exist when one partner checks out[/b] of having sex in a marriage).

I don't think either would cheat in a future relationship. [/quote]

12:39 here.  You expressed it far more concisely than I did.  It was when I no longer had intimacy (and I'm not talking about sex) in my marriage that I understood why people cheat.

If I were single, knowing what I know now, I wouldn't immediately discount someone who cheated.  It depends on the circumstances.[/quote]

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