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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel traumatized just reading about what a pig your dad is. Why do you have any contact with him? You mention him being a grandpa. My mom had a father like this who ran around on her mom and then abandoned the family in the middle of winter. They got evicted and had to stay in a homeless shelter with a newborn. I’ve never met that pig of a man because my mom protected us. [/quote]

OP, how can you say, I love my mom and my Dad didn't do this to me so I'm fine with her. He did that TO YOUR MOM. You are stabbing her again by saying it's okay with you, not your problem. When people hurt those I love, it makes me mad. It's not okay with me. She's lost her husband AND you.[/quote]

You're clearly the same poster with your over and over again perceptions.

The mother stayed in that relationship forever, she has some ownership in this, and yes, the father/child dynamic is very separate than what happens in a marriage.

OP needs to have a relationship with her father based on how he treats HER not her mother andr the fact that you're getting involved in your parents marriage shows that you yourself have a big problem with boundaries.   :roll: [/quote]

I’m a different poster, I’ve posted before in this thread, and agree with the PP you’re referring to. Just because you don’t understand or agree a different perspective doesn’t make you correct (or me either, for that matter. Roll your eyes all you want. It’s the very definition of selfish to overlook the poor treatment of another human, especially a close family member, because it doesn’t affect you.[/quote]

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