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[quote=Anonymous]I’m the one who suggested telling - and this is because I too belong to the toxic but lovely mom club. I love her but regularly want to strangle her. The point is to tell BOTH - so Grandma knows AND son knows your sticking up for your kid - always. And you can bond over the antics and show your son how to deal with difficult people - she won’t be the last and the next might not even be a relative. Show your son who YOU are - esp when faced with others that you can’t control. Why should OPs family suffer and be self banished? Embarrassing Grandma - before the event will most likely stop her from her “helpful assistance”. And fwiw - I’m not sure why the sons stats are regularly discussed with dr - seems within normal and if son can handle his own weight - you handle yours. My son - about the same height went thru similar changes and college slimmed him down. Just depends on the guy. If he’s active and happy, don’t bother.[/quote]
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