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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd trust this advice a lot more if we had more couples chiming in, saying, "Yup, our sex life was on life support, he took some stuff off my plate, and it perked right up." [/quote] Wife here who started out marriage/life with high libido. Slowly died down to 1x per week due to outside stressors, all already been said. Therapy and a DH who stepped it up worked for us. I began to see him as a partner (and sexual partner) and not just another task or person demanding something from me. [/quote] +1 Once my DH started [b]helping out more and treating me as a priority[/b] our sex life picked up - we are back to 3/4 times a week. I don’t think men get how built up resentment kills desire (at least my DH didn’t). FWIW I work outside of the home and have two kids. [/quote] DP - the helping out more I get (and I feel this should be a given but it clearly is not in many marriages), but what is it that makes you feel that you're a priority?[/quote]
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