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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She doesn't "have flexibility" any more than you do. SAHM is a full-time job; WOHD is a full-time job. You have home life responsibilities: BOTH of you. If I considered it my husband's "job" to file the taxes for both of us, and that didn't get done, do you think I have no responsibility to file the damn taxes? If she's not getting the vacation plans done, and clearly she's not, you take on the task. You don't get to delegate as if you have no responsibility here.[/quote] Uh. Not true. I'm a SAHM and I have ultimate flexibility. Much more more than my DH. You can't even compare the two of us. Today I already went to Costco, went grocery shopping, threw in laundry from the weekend (since neither of us "work" on the weekends), scheduled 2 drs appointments, and am about to work out. After that I will start prepping dinner at 330, so we will have an easy night. It is my job to handle the home and his job to make the money. I've already booked our spring break trip, booked our Christmas trip months ago. All my DH has to do it coach our kids sports and come home and be mentally present with the family. Not hard. Ops wife is just LAZY and doesn't treat her JOB as a SAHM as a JOB. [/quote]
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