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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why can’t you make the reservations?  Just let her know you are going to go ahead and book travel and if she has any objection to let you know by X otherwise it’s done.  Why are you making her do it?[/quote]

This is a good idea.  Say, here are the flights/plans, I’m booking tomorrow let me know if you have any issues with it.  Then if she complains you can say you have her plenty of time to object to the plan before you booked it.  If the bigger issue is the complaining when/if you make the plans, that might be a common venting/complaining issue where she thinks she’s just letting off steam and you think she’s criticizing you (for making the plans).  Maybe she can see that and stop.  But if she’s not willing to be introspective about it and consider changing then you just have to decide what you can live with and what you can’t.  It does take away from the closeness of the relationship not to be able to solve problems like this so that the relationship works relatively well for both of you.  Some PPs have described ways that have worked in their relationship.  But if she’s just unhappy either way/all the time, well, it’s probably not just about this one thing.  [/quote]

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