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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is there a cultural difference by chance? An economic difference growing up - maybe everything was done for her growing up so she is clueless on logistics (and consequences) and decision making now that she is an adult.[/quote]

This is definitely the case.  She was really surprised when the 600 mile trip would cost 1K at the last minute...
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Then say you’re sorry she was caught out on this one, but this is one of the reasons you tried to get her to do it 3 weeks ago.  And then, like a teenager, let her suffer the logical consequences of her decision and priorities.  Next time, I hope you’ll be willing to schedule it in advance.  Even keel, as dispassionate as possible on your end.  After the trip say things like “it was great to see DC perform, but I would have enjoyed it even more with you there.”  You wanted her to come, she chose not to, you’re a grown up and can deal with that, but would have preferred to do it together.

No way you should stay home.  That’s ridiculous.[/quote]

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