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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would find this to be a complete waste of money and, frankly, absurd.  Our HHI is well beyond the OP’s, as us that if many of our friends with kids, and nobody (literally nobody) hires this type of care when having a second (or third or fourth) child.  Some had parents come (though that was rare and largely because the parents wanted to).  And even the most helpful parents were there as a second pair of hands, or when both spouses were at work. Never using Parents as an overnight baby nurse.

OP, I do not doubt that you may have wider issues, whether marital or possibly psychological Given your inflated sense of the additional care needed for your second child. I am very sorry for that. This solution, though, strikes me as not addressing these fundamentals. I wish you well, but I don’t think this is the answer.[/quote]

Really? Because in NYC it is completely common. So much so that people who make a lot less than 800k  try to stretch their budgets to afford baby nurses. Or get their parents to pay for it.

In NYC private school circles, guarantee most people had a baby nurse for at least the first 6 weeks if not longer.

Most do baby nurse for 3 months than transition to day nanny. [/quote]

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