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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Two issues-

1. He is intelligent, controlling, and dominant yet still passive if that makes sense. It wasn’t clear to me what this looked like for awhile but I’ve figured it out. He will act very easy going but actually has a very clear idea of how he wants things to go and will act out passive aggressively if this does not happen. Conflict avoidant which leads to breakdown in communication.

2. I resent him being socially kind of awkward. Doesn’t have friends unless through me. Never does hobbies or initiates activities. Does not bring much fun to our relationship. Very serious and worries a lot about health and money (neither of which we have issues with). [/quote]

Wow. You just described my DH. [/quote]

Those aren't such bad attributes imo. I think I may have been like her DH. Health and money was my big thing even in my 20s. Ex DH was very smart and earned a lot of money, but lacked a LOT of common sense.  I couldn't take that so we went our separate ways. He ended up with great jobs, but never really saved, and didn't do his annual exams. I scheduled all that fyi. In his 50s ended up dying of a pretty curable disease because he again neglected his health. The sad thing is if we stayed married he'd be alive today. As it was I found tons of unclaimed accounts he neglected or forgot about. I'd take common sense 101 over any Mensa idiot....at least that's what I've learned.[/quote]

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