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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm team OP on the original issue. Since there was a long line, it doesn't make sense to hold everyone up over a single order of fries.

But I would  also say name-calling and cruel comments (both sides) are not okay. [/quote]

Um, the fries are the best part!  Very few people would just drive off knowingly not having their whole order.  Besides, at McD’s if it will take a while, they direct you to one of the parking spots and bring it out to you.  It’s not like they were going to hold up the line for 10 minutes or something.  [/quote]

Yup, fries are the best part.  You never want to be shorted on fries.  McDonalds always has a line and like PP says they have special parking for order issues.[/quote]

I know everyone is having fun piling on and I hate to interrupt, but it kind of sounds like they wanted OP'S husband to pull off to the side and he refused, insisting to stay put. OP?[/quote]

ITA. Op can you describe the incident in better detail? You’re getting piled on here...but I am curious about exactly how this escalated to you calling him deranged. Was he seriously just wanting to wait quietly and politely for fries and you called him deranged out of the blue!? Or was he making a fuss of some sort before you said that? Either way, you shouldn’t have said that, but context would be helpful. [/quote]

She said he got angry first then she called him deranged but most posters are ignoring his anger. [/quote]

Yes he got angry first because he wanted to wait for fries he has paid for and enjoys.  However OP thought he was waiting too long and told him not to worry about the fries.  OP seems to think that waiting for fries at McDonalds is a huge thing so she got huffy at him and told him to go - I would bet there was an eye roll when she said it as well.  Op wouldn't have smiled sweetly and said "Oh honey lets go, you can have my fries".  No it would have been spat out at him with a filthy glare "Just go already, why are you holding everyone up for your stupid fries".  Her DH has reacted angrily probably at her going off again over something minor he has done, I bet it's a common occurrence at the moment.

Because he got angry she called him deranged.  His anger is not misplaced.  [/quote]

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