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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m trying to be sympathetic but I know six months from now, we are going to be in the exact same situation. That’s where we were six months ago. He hated his last job, said he needed to move on. Took a pay cut for this current job which he now wants to quit. If he leaves, it’s not going to be easy for him to get back into a job like he’s had. Then he’s really going to be stuck because there aren’t ample jobs in his field outside of working for the county. We have one car payment, we can cut our food budget but truly, there’s no where else to find money. We own our home and have a very reasonable mortgage payment, don’t take vacations. We have childcare expenses but those are fixed too. We have young children and if we are both working, we need childcare. So yes, we already live on a budget. We don’t live extravagant at all. I can see us cutting out maybe $5k a year but that doesn’t make up the rest. [/quote]

This was OPs update. They’ve already cut everything they could when the husband took his first paycut last year. He’s putting all the financial stress of his decisions on her and taking no responsibility for his situation. On top of everything, she still has to listen complain all day because he doesn’t want to deal with his anxiety.

OP, you should divorce him while he still has a job. People who refuse to treat mental health issues will drag you underwater with them. You’re both going to drown if you don’t get away from him. [/quote]

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