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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. His idea of taking care of our DC is plopping her in the living room with toys while he plays video games or reads reddit on his phone. I come home to dishes in the sink. Clean clothes unfolded and un put away. Our bed sheets are never washed unless I do it. His cooking consists of heating up chicken nuggets, or frozen pizza. The only time we eat vegetables is if I cook them. And I do- I cook a meal almost every day. I am pissed.[/quote] Disconnect the wifi and his cell service. [/quote] But what if he enjoys the improvisational, wander-where-thou-wilt freedom afford by the 'Net? And what if the household chores you find so instinctual and satisfying are, for him, a bore or even drudgery? Same thing with laundry and cooking. [b]What if he doesn't feel connected with those kinds of activities? [/b][/quote] Wtf? I do laundry because I want clean clothes. I clean my home because I want a clean home. I cook because I want healthy food. Same for dh who did all these things on his own long before I ever met him. Responsible adults do these things even if they are boring. This goes double for responsible adults with kids. [/quote]
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