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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. His idea of taking care of our DC is plopping her in the living room with toys while he plays video games or reads reddit on his phone. I come home to dishes in the sink. Clean clothes unfolded and un put away. Our bed sheets are never washed unless I do it. His cooking consists of heating up chicken nuggets, or frozen pizza. The only time we eat vegetables is if I cook them. And I do- I cook a meal almost every day. I am pissed.[/quote] Oh just hell no! I’d tell him to pick cooking or cleaning, one or the other, NOW. That is bullshit. I could do dinner if he cleaned, or I could clean if he did dinner but no WAY would I do both. I’d give him an ultimatum about finding a job if I were you. Tell him that DC need social interaction at her age, and needs to be in childcare at least part time. At the least. And he needs to get a job to cover the cost. Maybe working and getting out more will snap him out of this funk??? You really can’t leave because you’d be stuck paying child support (and probably childcare) Ugh I am sorry op. He needs a job. Yesterday. even if it is retail etc. [/quote]
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