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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I get that you might not like her moving in. But children always come first. She comes before you. Always will. And I would personally divorce my second husband before he would try to tell me what to do with my children. [/quote]

Stop it with this babbling nonsense. A 22-year old is not a child.

If you moved your loser adult children into the house, without giving your DH any say in the matter, then your DH would divorce you, and rightly so.[/quote]

All that really matters is that she's a child to her father.   It's not up to OP to tell her husband how to treat his daughter.

Blood children first, second spouses second.[/quote]

It may not be up to OP, but the house is half hers (I'm assuming). She's paying half the bills/expenses and clearly this young woman has no job so will be costing her money in utilities, in groceries, etc. OP gets input on the people that move into her home and cost her money. I don't know if OP has her own children, but if she does, her money should be saved for them in case they need help, if you apply your "blood children first" logic.

If dad feels so strongly about it, he should pay for an apartment or a shared room in a group home (out of his own paycheck of course). [/quote]

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