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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The older I get, the more I think it just comes down to how sexually jealous a person is.  It's probably hard-wired at some level.  As someone who just isn't that sexually jealous, if my wife came to me about wanting to open the marriage, I would be game for the discussion.  Even if she cheated, I can't see the headache of divorce being worth it.  And the folks on here who chime on about infidelity is worse than physical abuse, it just makes no sense to me.  I know I am not alone on this.

OP, if the thought of your wife with someone else causes revulsion, there is probably no real solution other than to hope your wife can cover her tracks.[/quote]

I agree with this. The difference is they are of childbearing age. While I agree I could pretty easily forgive cheating, it would be a whole different ballgame if cheating resulted in a pregnancy. That’s something that would affect my children, that would change my family in ways I did not want. Being older almost completely takes that out of the equation. I think that’s why younger people are more jealous than older ones. The consequences are much more severe. [/quote]

Good point, our three rules have always been: 1) no pregnancies, 2) no diseases and 3) don't do anything to embarrass the family.

We are both medically incapable of #1 now[/quote]

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