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Well said. Yikes. Some angry judgmental people here. There’s more than just two kinds of kids, hard-working winners and lazy losers. My kid was the latter in high school. Took I think 11 or 12 APs, indicating ambition, but didn’t have anywhere near close to the work ethic to get more than a mix of A’s B’s and even a couple of C’s. It was hard to watch and I tried every motivational tool in the book. (Unicorn indeed - so true.) A good T25 LAC took a flyer on him - possibly wanting his 1520 - and so he went off with his crappy habits and proceeded to collect the same mediocre grades. I, like the OP, thought he would finally get it. Poor executive functioning in young men is a thing, and it does change. But no, not at first.

Fast forward two years and he is a much better student. He survived the crappy first few semesters at a high cost to his GPA (which will never completely recover) and finally began to string together some really good work. He’ll finish over 3.0 but not by a whole lot, but he’s in a demanding major (mathematical economics) and now in his senior year he’s getting some early recruiting nibbles. I’m sure some will eliminate him for the not so great GPA but that’s cool. He earned that.

Just wanted to offer a different perspective and hope for some who have kids with crappy habits and/or don’t seem to care. [/quote]

My grades in high school and college were EXACTLY the same by 0.02 points. This is probably very common.[/quote]

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