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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So we have multiple children of divorce sharing stories of their vindictive mothers and how the world isn’t quite black and white, and they’re getting shamed and talked down to like they couldn’t possibly know their own experience. Amazing. [/quote]

Thanks for posting this.  I want to scream through the screen at the scorned people on here thinking they are doing anything other than massively screwing up their kids with this insistence that their children take sides, shun cheaters and pledge fealty.  This happened in my family, my mom was cheated on and took every opportunity to remind me and my siblings why we were no longer a family.  You are so hurt, you can't see it, but the more crazy you act, the more you attack my parent, the more you create sympathy for the person you want me to despise.

I have a better relationship with my dad now, but TBH, now that I have my own family, I can choose to shut both of them and their chaos out of my life.  The last thing I need to worry about at weddings, showers, and family events is the musical chairs of trying to keep mom away from Dad and his still gf/ former AP and all the negative energy it creates.

OP, go sort this out with a good family therapist.  None of them will tell you to listen to the advice of the bitter scorned on here.[/quote]

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