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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]are you paying your nanny extra to watch this other kid?[/quote]

This is what I wonder about too. [/quote]

No. She is completely empowered by me to ask the kid to leave whenever she wants to no questions asked no push back. He and the 4 yr old play together a lot and she says it honestly makes the day easier sometimes to have a playmate that isn't just 2 y/o DS around.

Nanny is paid well and has a very good schedule, we contribute to her healthcare, she has essentially no hard limits on leave requests and she is salaried instead of hourly. And she will be getting a raise when the new baby comes.

Also some of this is OBE I realized today because school starts soon and so in the next week or two neighbor kid will be gone during the days again.

Nanny is extremely happy with her job and pay and feels exactly as I do about the boy, inclined to be a safe and supportive adult in his life. She and I have talked a few times today about how we feel unsure about how to correctly proceed in this situation in a way that doesn't disrupt the children but sets boundaries with the dad. Like me, she mostly is annoyed by the Dad putting her in a weird position. The kid she does not mind. [/quote]

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