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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a sugar daddy. Did you find him on the website for that sort of thing?

Monthly arrangement? How much?

How does he provide the money? I've always found that was the uncomfortable bit.[/quote]

I’m much more interested in an AMA with you!

Can you elaborate how you provide support to the girls you date? 
How old are you? How old are they? Are you exclusive or DADT? 
How do you arrange the money? Do you pay their rent directly? 
Are you married?

So many questions! [/quote]

In my circle of friends who are entrepreneurs (all in 40s and 50s), I'd say about half are into "sugaring." Some of them have someone local and long-term, like one friend who pays for his SB's (sugarbaby's) apartment and I imagine they go out to dinner and shopping. Her apartment is near his office, not by coincidence. It's easy to come up with excuses to be working late I guess.

I do PPM (pay per meet) where you pay each time you meet. (Feel free to call it prostitution, I don't care.) In my case, I only meet SBs when I'm traveling, so there is no opportunity to set up anything long-term anyway and that's because I don't do any of this where I live. We usually meet up for a drink and see if there's a click and continue on or not. I don't mind if we don't continue -- my libido has gone down as I age anyway, and I just enjoy meeting new people. I'll pay just for meeting me (they usually don't expect it at that stage; and then more if we continue).

One thing I'm super-careful about is as an SD (sugardaddy) you can be a target for extortion. They know you have money, and typically a high-profile job, so why not threaten to reveal all that unless you pay up? For that reason, I have my profile set up so that it doesn't appear in searches and no random SBs can contact me. Instead, only those I contact can even see it. Then, I use photos that I've already checked on Google Image Search that it isn't able to link to me, and usually the photos have my face partially obscured. Normally the people who fall prey to this are cases where the scammer contacts them first, and if you have your marital status (married, of course!) listed in your profile. I even use a throwaway email, and fake name and address on the website when paying, so that if they ever had a data breach, I'm not at risk. After that affair site (I'll avoid writing the name so no one gets ads for it) hack that exposed all the names/emails of customers to the world, I'm not taking any risks like that. I also pay for the subscription using a prepaid credit card.[/quote]

This all seems so unnecessarily complicated.[/quote]

+1. Why don’t you and your friends just meet women out in the real world? Seems like it would be less expensive and less work.

I don’t understand the SB thing, it seems like such a waste of money. If you are rich enough to afford one, you’re rich enough to attract a few women at a bar. [/quote]

If you can be a sugardaddy, then money is not the issue. It's time. Go to some random bar, hope to meet a woman who meets your taste, is eligible, ready to go home that night, etc? There's a reason people use Tinder now instead of going to bars. This just takes it to another level.[/quote]

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