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[quote=Anonymous]Seems like you now have two important pieces of info: (1) DH had nudes on his phone; and (2) DH told you a ridiculous and bald-faced lie instead of just copping to it. Now you just have to decide what to do with this information. I share the sentiment that investigating is pointless--I think you know everything you need to know. From the two pieces of information you have, I think it's pretty clear that he is cheating on you and has no plans to stop/reconcile. If you want to divorce, consult a divorce lawyer to confirm this, but I don't think having evidence of adultery will help get you a better deal. If you want to stay with him, even though he is having an affair and is a liar, then stay with him and forget what you saw. If you want him to deal with this through counseling, etc., you are out of luck, as he has taken that option off the table. Good luck--I know that none of the choices facing you are very appealing, and that this must be devastating, but you will find your way through it. Hang in there.[/quote]
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