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[quote=Anonymous]She lied for years. You cannot take her word for it regarding anything having to do with the relationship - whether it's over, the level of risks with her health and yours that she took, anything. It's understandable that you're going to "I want to keep things together", but you probably don't have the full story yet, and there may yet be more cycles of her saying she's ending it (and maybe even temporarily doing so) and then going back. You need to set some boundaries, and one of those should be that she finds a new job. If she doesn't agree and then really commit to that, that's informative regarding how seriously she takes this marriage. Not that you have to leave if she won't find a new job, but it will help if you let go of the idea that you can, singlehandedly, restore this marriage. You can't. [/quote]
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