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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s horrible from all sides. But I had a pretty negative reaction to the lady who was about herself (my immediate reaction was wasn’t able to bond, feed with her body, blah blah blah). Yes, I get it’s a shock, but you’d hope your first thoughts would be about your baby and not your missed opportunity. Hopefully her journey will develop to an understanding that a child’s mother doesn’t have to be the one to birth them to be a good mother.

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I've been interviewed before. It's entirely possible that she did worry about her baby but the reporter didn't include the quote. I wouldn't assume the interview was fully reported.[/quote]

Yeah, that lady just got a bio baby without the pain and suffering of pregnancy. The multiple pains of pregnancy is what keeps me from having a third child. I would pay $$$ to have a surrogate carry my bio child. Mom doesn’t need to carry the baby to bond with baby. How would dads ever bond with their child according to her thinking?

The Asian couple better get at least $1m for their ordeal. What a nightmare. [/quote]

Spoken like someone who has successfully given birth. You can't know what this woman is going through because you are not in her shoes. Lucky you that you can decide NOT to have a third child, just like that. Must be nice for it to be so easy to decide not to get pregnant.[/quote]

I’m not the pp, but for everyone’s sake, let’s not make this about who is suffering more. The people you are responding to are real people, despite this apparent internet anonymity. Yes it is painful for you not to have been able to carry a child, and yes it is also painful for many of us to be able to carry children but also have severe pregnancy complications or severe PPD. I too would love to have a third child handed to me, but my body and marriage and other children would suffer tremendously with a third pregnancy. The first thing I thought with this story was wow, it would be amazing if someone just handed me my own third biological child.[/quote]

Yeah but this is the INFERTILITY board. [/quote]

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