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[quote=Anonymous]^^ It's me again.

By the way, I'm sincerely not trying to insult you or hurt your feelings.

I commend you for making family such an important priority - I'm sure there are MIL's all over the world who would kill to have a DIL like you.

Im just being brutally honest with you, because I think that's what you need... a wake up call. 
Those sugar coating it with you or telling you that you're right, well... they aren't helping you AT ALL. 
Please take our advice & you'll be much more comfortable around each other in the future.

Oh & if you take issue with her or something she does, go directly to the source - do NOT have your fiance address it with her (you see how well that went last time, right??) you go & talk to her yourself!

If she feels that you're trying to put him in the middle or you're trying to pit him against her, as outlandish as that accusation may seem to you, perception IS truly reality & if she feels intimidated or naturally competitive for her son's affection/attention, then that IS her perception... which will also inevitably be her reality.

She'll hate you for trying to pit her baby boy against her... trust me.

Congrats on the engagement & best wishes for a happy & healthy future! [/quote]

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