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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, my husband has been the uninterested party for 13+ years and we’re not divorcing, so....13+ years?[/quote]

He is interested in something, just not you. Maybe an AP, maybe gay, maybe porn. Sorry. Have you strayed through that drought?[/quote]

This comment is so 1980"s. You have no clue, he could be asexual, he might be on medication that made the boys stop working like so many vets.

Your myopic thinking is so uneducated. [/quote]

Oh please.... 13 years with no sex is the sign of a serious problem. Medication that makes him impotent does not mean this is not a problem. [/quote]

OR:  Maybe for you, if sex is the most important aspect of a marriage.  For me, it’s not. We get along incredibly well, we have the same goals and parenting style for our child/family.  Sex is one part of a big picture and, [b]overall, the picture is wonderful. [/b] I’m not blowing up my life/my family because I have to use a vibrator.  That’s juvenile, in my opinion.  [/quote]

Obviously this is a women's point of view ... If you aren't having sex, I can almost guarantee your husband would not describe the picture as "wonderful"[/quote]

Or he is not able/interested and she isn’t an a$$hole.[/quote]

OR:  this is it - he has low drive, maybe medical issues, and all the other aspects of our life together trumps this one, single thing.  [/quote]

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