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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Affair is MUCH worse. Gay is who you are. Affair is a character flaw.[/quote]

Interesting reasoning, lol. 
A gay affair is still an affair, and so it is also a character flaw. In addition, you’re gay, so you never were in love with your spouse to begin with. Ouch!! Double whammy.[/quote]

When you come from an ultra religious family gay isn't even an option, and saying you weren't in love ever is a little harsh. The gay spouse was trying, and likely does LOVE spouse (but isn't attracted to him/her). I see it as growth.

My uncle is gay. He's also married to my aunt. Everybody knows he's gay. He's always had his "boys" (affairs? maybe. Maybe not I don't care to know). But he can't won't admit it because it is not how he sees himself as a Christian as a father, as a man. Yes, a lot of that is changing. But still a problem. My best friend's nephew is super religious. He's now married to an apparent dyke who is at least 15 years older than him. He's probably gay. But he can't see won't see won't admit doesn't want to be gay.  I'm sure he and his wife aren't having sex. She likes women. He likes men. They found each other as a way to be respectable without being outside of their church community.

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