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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You’re really in a pickle. Don’t accept any bedroom furniture until you talk to your wife.

And have a serious discussion with het why she doesn’t want to host your parents.

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OP here: In short, my Mom has a history of saying some shitty things to my wife, which, to my mom seem like innocent comments, but I know my wife is hurt by them. Things were initially rough, but have gotten better in recent months. The other issue is that my parents often just want to get up early, hang out around the house, and stay up late, while my wife and I like to do activities outside of the house. I know all the "extreme togetherness" with my family can be alot, which is why I'm trying to be understanding of her wishes in this situation. [/quote]

You and your wife really need to get it together and work it out.

Putting them in a hotel doesn't change the daytime forced togetherness.  As is often the case, the post isn't about what the poster said initially.

The truth is, you don't enjoy their visits. Your wife can't stand it, and neither one of you has either a spine or some compassion. THAT is the issue.[/quote]

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