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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was the cheater and my husband said it was simply a matter of trust and that he’d never trust me again so there was no forgiveness. It was brutally cold and unemotional which made it even more painful. Our two children were in college and he told me it was up to me to explain to them why we were separating. They were devastated and they have been very distant since then. The damage I did to them and my ex was overwhelming and even though it’s been five years I still feel very alone. I was so stupid in allowing [b]an emotional relationship with an old friend to suddenly get physical [/b]even though I had a good marriage. [/quote]

How long was your affair?  Did you have sex just once with this guy?

Possibility that the emotional aspect made the betrayal worse in your husband's eyes?[/quote]

to the 2nd PP, you're over thinking this and thinking about this from a woman's perspective.  the 1st PP noted her exDH said it was the trust that had been broken, and as a man whose exW also cheated, that was an irrevocable break for me.  In my case. she slept with another man behind my back and lied about it. What more was there to consider?[/quote]

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