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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It takes about 2 to 3 years post-divorce and you start to not really care one bit. A bit more time and you could actually see them in friendly terms, but not someone to actively be friends with, but be chill about co-parenting with her or him.[/quote]

You get to a point where you feel indifferent about them and simply glad that they are no longer a problem.  But the psychological scarring from the betrayal lasts.  Op will never again trust anyone that way ever again.  [/quote]

Very true. My ex wife cheated and we divorced about 5 years ago. I won’t ever love that way again. First marriage, children, both being all in and building a life together. I’m over it as much as one can be, but it sucks at 54 to know I had my shot at doing it right and it’s messed up and I can’t ever do that again. All my current prospects are middle aged very nice divorced women with kids. Any talk of re marriage involves basically separate finances and more of a partnership, and not the crazy all in life together situation that I had. Makes me sad sometimes. [/quote]

Did she leave or did you? Why did you feel you had to get divorced?[/quote]

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